Monday, November 29, 2010

Phoning your date

Once a date has come to an end there are many thoughts and feelings that may go through your mind and heart. You may wish to see your date again or never to see him/her again. After a bad date you’d never like to see that person again in that case move on to another prospect. On the other hand you may have had an excellent time together and are looking forward to seeing each other again. If this is the case then you will probably wish to make contact as soon as possible. If so here are some quick tips to assist you about phoning your date:

1.) Call your date to thank him/her for the memorable time spent together. Make this call relatively short and it’s probably a good idea not to start chatting for hours. This shows you are needy and sometimes words can be misconstrued.

2.) Do not sound tired or sad over phone as this will make you look boring. Remember to sound energetic and keep smiling over phone to show that you are a person who is fun to be with.

3.) In this era of electronic communication, don't think that your only choice of contact is phoning your date. Understand that it may be easier for both of you to sms chat, meet on a social networking website or email. This method should only be used during business hours as you don’t want to become annoying while the other person may be working.

4.) Never call repeatedly in case the other person does not respond to your phone call just leave a message on answering machine or text them. When they have the time they will call you back if they are interested.

5.) If you do not get a call back or response to your messages, this is the time to understand the situation and move on to continue your search.

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